Women and Mid-Life Divorce
It’s supposed to be forever, for richer and poorer, for better and worse, in sickness and in health, and until death do you part. However, far too many women are finding that when they reach mid life, they are facing divorce. The reasons are many, and sometimes, it may difficult to determine one exact cause why a marriage may end, however one thing is certain, women who are facing divorce must take care of themselves and move on with their lives.
Divorce is equivocal to death. In fact, it is normal to expect that there will be a great time of sadness and even a grieving stage when divorce first takes place. It will take time for women to realize that their relationship has finally ended. Even if the woman knows and understands that the divorce is final and that there is nothing she can to do to change the circumstances or situation, she will still face a period of grieving. The important thing is to recognize the signs of normal grieving and be wary of letting that grief and sorrow turn into depression.
When a woman faces divorce, she must be on the look out for becoming depressed. One of the best things that she can do is get out of the house and become active. Whether it is volunteering in her community, spending time in church or social activities, or just enjoying a day at the theater, women must not stay inside lest they begin to lose hope and vision for the rest of their lives. It’s also important to realize that you are not alone. There are many other women who are facing the same thing that you are. If you feel that you are becoming increasingly sad, you may want to meet with other women who are experiencing mid life divorce. There are many divorce support groups, check with your local community recreation center or church to see when the next meeting is. Sometimes just having someone to talk with is the best therapy of all, and you’ll make new friends.
Taking the time to nurture yourself is one of the most important steps you can take. Many women, who are in their middle years, have spent their time taking care of children and their husband. Once their nest becomes empty and they face divorce they can become very depressed. Instead of giving in to this sadness, take the time to learn something new. Don’t let this be a time of sorrow, but make it a time of joy. Consider if there is a hobby or craft that you’ve always wanted to learn. Take a class in your community. Not only will you get out of the house, but also you’ll be focusing your mind on other things, and staying active. You’ll more than likely meet new people and will feel better about yourself.
It’s also important to make sure that you don’t overeat and take care of your health. When women become sad it is common to turn to food, excessive sleep, and a lack of exercise. This is the worst thing that you can do. It’s a good idea to get out of the house every day, watch what you eat, and make sure that you get plenty of sleep each night. By taking care of your physical health, you’ll be able to withstand the emotional stress that comes with divorce. By spending time with friends, getting out, and engaging in activities you’ll find that you’ll begin to heal from the divorce and move on with your life more easily.
A native of the Midwest farm country in Iowa, Marcia Chumbley has lived in a number of locations. She has resided in Chicago, Illinois; Milwaukee, Wisconsin; and Minneapolis, Minnesota., Living in rural and metropolitan areas taught Marcia to always look for the best opportunities each community could offer. She now lives in a rural area of Minnesota that has a small city flare and closeness to the land.
Marcia’s work experiences outside the home include over 30 years in the medical and insurance field in manager, investigator and administrative roles. She has also worked as a contract administrator for a world wide security company. Marcia has work in the corporate world outside of her home and has various home based businesses over the years. She holds a degree in business management and is CMOM certified.
Marcia is the founder and publisher of a Christian Work From Moms and Grandparents web site “Faithful Grannies.com”, Work At Home Divas Online for Boomers, Crafters and Stay At Home Moms, and Work At Home Moms Choices-WAHM Choices.com . She is a well known published and featured author through out the internet.
Marcia’s successful home based businesses now allow her time and freedom to pursue her personal and professional interests. Marcia’s vast knowledge of the cottage industry, internet, and marketing has created success in the business world both on and off the internet.
It’s supposed to be forever, for richer and poorer, for better and worse, in sickness and in health, and until death do you part. However, far too many women are finding that when they reach mid life, they are facing divorce. The reasons are many, and sometimes, it may difficult to determine one exact cause why a marriage may end, however one thing is certain, women who are facing divorce must take care of themselves and move on with their lives.
Divorce is equivocal to death. In fact, it is normal to expect that there will be a great time of sadness and even a grieving stage when divorce first takes place. It will take time for women to realize that their relationship has finally ended. Even if the woman knows and understands that the divorce is final and that there is nothing she can to do to change the circumstances or situation, she will still face a period of grieving. The important thing is to recognize the signs of normal grieving and be wary of letting that grief and sorrow turn into depression.
When a woman faces divorce, she must be on the look out for becoming depressed. One of the best things that she can do is get out of the house and become active. Whether it is volunteering in her community, spending time in church or social activities, or just enjoying a day at the theater, women must not stay inside lest they begin to lose hope and vision for the rest of their lives. It’s also important to realize that you are not alone. There are many other women who are facing the same thing that you are. If you feel that you are becoming increasingly sad, you may want to meet with other women who are experiencing mid life divorce. There are many divorce support groups, check with your local community recreation center or church to see when the next meeting is. Sometimes just having someone to talk with is the best therapy of all, and you’ll make new friends.
Taking the time to nurture yourself is one of the most important steps you can take. Many women, who are in their middle years, have spent their time taking care of children and their husband. Once their nest becomes empty and they face divorce they can become very depressed. Instead of giving in to this sadness, take the time to learn something new. Don’t let this be a time of sorrow, but make it a time of joy. Consider if there is a hobby or craft that you’ve always wanted to learn. Take a class in your community. Not only will you get out of the house, but also you’ll be focusing your mind on other things, and staying active. You’ll more than likely meet new people and will feel better about yourself.
It’s also important to make sure that you don’t overeat and take care of your health. When women become sad it is common to turn to food, excessive sleep, and a lack of exercise. This is the worst thing that you can do. It’s a good idea to get out of the house every day, watch what you eat, and make sure that you get plenty of sleep each night. By taking care of your physical health, you’ll be able to withstand the emotional stress that comes with divorce. By spending time with friends, getting out, and engaging in activities you’ll find that you’ll begin to heal from the divorce and move on with your life more easily.
A native of the Midwest farm country in Iowa, Marcia Chumbley has lived in a number of locations. She has resided in Chicago, Illinois; Milwaukee, Wisconsin; and Minneapolis, Minnesota., Living in rural and metropolitan areas taught Marcia to always look for the best opportunities each community could offer. She now lives in a rural area of Minnesota that has a small city flare and closeness to the land.
Marcia’s work experiences outside the home include over 30 years in the medical and insurance field in manager, investigator and administrative roles. She has also worked as a contract administrator for a world wide security company. Marcia has work in the corporate world outside of her home and has various home based businesses over the years. She holds a degree in business management and is CMOM certified.
Marcia is the founder and publisher of a Christian Work From Moms and Grandparents web site “Faithful Grannies.com”, Work At Home Divas Online for Boomers, Crafters and Stay At Home Moms, and Work At Home Moms Choices-WAHM Choices.com . She is a well known published and featured author through out the internet.
Marcia’s successful home based businesses now allow her time and freedom to pursue her personal and professional interests. Marcia’s vast knowledge of the cottage industry, internet, and marketing has created success in the business world both on and off the internet.
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