Hello God

The holidays can be stressful in their own way. Add in a divorce, recession, separation, single parents, depression, homeless, and other medical conditions. We sit some days and worry where will the next meal come from or how can I pay for my electric bill. Many single moms worry about Christmas and making the time just a little bit brighter for their children.

I came across this prayer today thought many women could use a little talk with the man upstairs.Enjoy, keep those special people in your heart while you pray along with them.

"Hello God, I called tonight
To talk a little while
I need a friend who'll listen
To my anxiety and trial.
You see, I can't quite make it
Through a day just on my own...
I need your love to guide me,
So I'll feel alone.
I want to ask you please to keep,
My family safe and sound.
Come and fill their lives with confidence
For whatever fate they've bound.
Give me the faith, dear God to face
Each hour throughout the day,
And not to worry over things
I can't change in any way,
I thank you God, for being home
And listening to my call,
For giving me such good advice
When I Stumble and fall.
Your number, God is the only one
That answers every time.
I never get a busy signal,
And never pay a dime.
So thank you, God for listening
To my troubles and my sorrow.
Good Night, God I love you, too.
And I'll call again tomorrow!"

Unknown author.

Quotes of the Day

The return on giving.

Make Yourself Necessary to Somebody- Ralph Waldo Enerson

Jigsaw Puzzle

Are you a jigsaw aficionado?

If you have worked complicated jigsaw puzzles,you know three things them:

First, They take time. Few people can put several hundred pieces of a puzzle together rapidly. Most large and complex puzzles take several days,even weeks, to complete. The fun is in the process, the satisfaction in the accomplishment.

Second, the staring point of a puzzle is usually to identify the corners and edges, the pieces with a straight edge.

Third, jigsaw puzzles are fun to work by oneself, but even more fun to work with others. When a "fit" is discovered between two or more pieces, the excitement is felt by all the participants.

Consider the day ahead of you like a piece in the jigsaw puzzle of your life. Indeed, its shape is likely to be just as jagged, its colors just as unidentifiable. The meaning of today may not be sequential to that of yesterday. What you experience today may actually fit with something you experienced several months ago, or something you experienced several months ago, or something you will experience in the future. You aren't likely to see the big picture of your life by observing only one day. Even so, you can trust that there is a plan and purpose. All the pieces will come together according to God's design and timetable.

On some days, we find straight-edged pieces of our life's puzzle-truths that become a part of our reason for being. On other days, we find pieces that fit together so we understand more about ourselves and about God's work in our lives, with others and inviting them to be part of the process of discovering who er are.

The main thing to remember is to enjoy the process. Live today to the fullest, knowing one day you'll see the full picture.

Life is what we make it. Always has been, always will be.- Grandma Moses

Holidays, No Time for A Self Pity Party

Ladies. the holidays are approaching fast. This time of year can be stressful. It is easy to fall into a ruit and have a self pity party. Please, please have plans. Do not sit at home all day and all alone. Due to divorce this may be the year your children are with your former spouse. So grad yourself by the boot straps and make plans. There are many things you can do to raise your self esteem and self worth.

Here are few ideas or things to do this holiday season.

1. Attend a local food self or kitchens and help serve meals to the homeless etc.

2. Call your best friend and ask if she needs help with her dinner. Being around friends is great and you can never have enough positive people in your life.

3.If you have family close by go to their house. Think of the dollars you would have spent to have a meal at your home and use that for gas money to see your family.

4.Attend a movie. There are so many new movies out and when you attend an afternoon showing is much cheaper than evenings.

5. See what your local church has planned and attend or help with their functions.

As you can see there are many things you can do this holiday season. For myself this year I am going to take the money I would have spent on a Thanksgiving meal and travel to Iowa to see family and friends. Then for Thanksgiving I have a friend who will travel with me and drive to Illinois to my fathers for the holiday weekend.

I feel very good that I took charge and made thiese plans so I am not just sitting around the house doing nothing. Being with friends many times around the holidays are the best medicine a doctor could order.

Enjoy yourself and enjoy your life.

Good God Girl What Are You Thinking

There are people who have good hearts. They are always looking to be helpful and do the right thing. Then there are the people who prey and take advantage of these good people. Many ex husbands do that with their ex wives or vice versa.

I soon learned this past week.. Our daughter just had her 3rd child. While the ex planned on attending and our daughter and older grand kids wanted him there as well. I was grandma taxi. I had to run and pick him up run him many places and my daughter these past few weeks. I had to run for him to work and picking him up for a ride home etc.

Don't get me wrong it was a christian thing to do. However, not once did he pay for gas.I learned last week he used my name and SS number to get Dish TV at his home. Tomorrow I will be meeting with him along with my attorney and his to discuss this item. He wants to have my spouse support reduced. Unreal!!

Here is a man I supported for over 30 years of marriage worked 2 full time jobs at times while he would work only 1 day or not per week.

When I got sick 2 years ago he decided I was of no value to him. The physical abuse and mental abuse increased to the highest level. He currently grosses close to 55K per year and I 20K on SSDI. His spouse support is 500.00 per month which makes my income 26K per year less than 50% of his.

He complains he is unable to live on his income due to the amount of spouse support he pays me. Then he goes and puts his utilities in my name or our daughters name without either of our permissions. Now, I have learned there is a difference between a person needs and wants. I have been very frugal. This is a man that smokes and drinks heavily in fact his is an alcoholic.

Basic math shows the amount he spends on cigarettes,vodka and soda more than covers my 500.00 per month. ( 1.5 pack per day @ $5.00 = $225.00 month. A huge 2 liter bottle of vodka per 1 to 1.5 days @ $17.00 per bottle = aprox $400.00+ per month. Then add in the soda needed to mix with the vodka 2+ liter bottle of Pepsi per day @ $1.50 = $45.00 per month. Totalling just these 3 items $225.00 Cigarettes + $400.00 Vodka + $45.00 Pepsi = $670.00+ per month. Which is more than enough to cover my spouse support.

He gets an annual pay increases from his federal contracted job. The next 2 years I will not receive any increases. The only increase will be in expenses. My medical insurance alone costs over $400.00 per month. He reminds me of a parent who refuses to pay child support for their children.

It tells you alot about a person. This person who took vows for better or worse sickness and health. Who enjoyed all the benefits for 30 years my income provided and supported him and our family. Now when the table is turned and my income went down 75% I was of no value to him. In fact he pointed this out verbally on many occasions that I was worthless to him.

I can say since the separation and divorce of 2 years I am much happier. People tell me all the time they can see it in my face and I am looking great. I must agree! I feel GREAT! There is physical pain each day due to my medical history, but that is small when looking at the emotional and physical pain I was living with while being married.

Looking back.... I say "Good God Girl What Are You Thinking". I knew I could not fix a broken marriage however I knew I could work and take care of myself. People would say how can you do it all? Then the ones closest to me would say they could see breakdown coming and so glad I woke up.

They would say:
"Good God Girl What Are You Thinking."
"Get Out"
"You Know What You Can Do About It."
"When You Are Ready I Will Still Be Your Friend"

Yes, it has taken 2 years to recover from the divorce to a abusive, alcoholic and unfaithful spouse with a hidden life style. While at the same time fighting breast cancer having a double mastectomy with reconstruction. Emotionally and physically I am a better person and I even love myself.

Each time I happen to be in the same room either at a family function etc. I chuckle inside I can see he is so negative and very good at malupation. Of course this is what an addicate does. Each time I get smarter and now being removed from all of it the air is much clearer.

There is not a day without physical muscle pain. Each day I look in the mirror I see the scars from when they cut into my body. But they never cut into my soul. Melissa Etheridge says it correctly "I Run For Life" The physical and mental scars are fading away. The darkness can be anything in your lives including divorce, death, breast cancer, and more.


Melissa Etheridge - I Run For Life:
Melissa Etheridge Lyrics I Run For Life
Lyrics Artist: Melissa Etheridge
Song: I Run For Life
Album: Greatest Hits The Road Less Traveled 2005

It's been years since they told her about it
The darkness her body possessed
And the scars are still there in the mirror
Everyday that she gets herself dressed
Though the pain is miles and miles behind her
And the fear is now a docile beast
If you ask her why she is still running
She'll tell you it makes her complete

[Chorus:]
I run for hope
I run to feel
I run for the truth
For all that is real
I run for your mother your sister your wife
I run for you and me my friend I run for life

It's a blur since they told me about it
How the darkness had taken its toll
And they cut into my skin and they cut into my body
But they will never get a piece of my soul
And now I'm still learning the lesson
To waken when I hear the call
And if you ask me why I am still running
I'll tell you I run for us all

[Chorus]

And someday if they tell you about it
If the darkness knocks on your door
Remember her remember me
We will be running as we have before
Running for answers
Running for more

You Are Kidding Me

A crisis may change your life. But it doesn't have to ruin it.

Love.

“Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you're just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky his is to have you.... The one who turns to his friends and says, 'that's her.'”

Quote For The Day

A true friend never gets in your way unless you happen to be going down.

Love Is

“I don't pretend to know what love is for everyone, but I can tell you what it is for me; love is knowing all about someone, and still wanting to be with them more than any other person, love is trusting them enough to tell them everything about yourself, including the things you might be ashamed of, love is feeling comfortable and safe with someone, but still getting weak knees when they walk into a room and smile at you.”

Happiness

People take different roads seeking fulfillment and happiness. Just because they're not on your road doesn't mean they've gotten lost.

Life and Happiness

Choose your life's mate carefully. From this one decision will come 90 percent of all your happiness or misery.

Love

Forgiveness is the final form of love.

Quote of the Day

Love is when the other person's happiness is more important than your own.

Life

Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly!
Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably
And never regret anything that made you smile!

Maxine and Dirty Dishes

Dishes and Dishwashers.

Quotes For The Day

Giving up doesn't always mean you are weak. Sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go."

Loved

"I'm Accepted, I'm Blessed, I'm Loved by the Best!"

Post Divorce - Recognizing and Dealing With Untrue Accusations

Shelley Grieser - I am a Christian Life Coach specializing in Broken Marriages/Divorce. I work with people all across the country who are on their journey of recovery from divorce, to empower them to create a future they truly desire.

Going through a divorce is extremely painful. As I walk alongside a good friend of mine who is currently going through a divorce, I am reminded of the additional pain often experienced by hurtful words spoken or exchanged between spouses.

Amazing isn't it when you are on the outside of the situation you can see it so clearly. But when you are in the middle of the situation, on the receiving end of the hurtful words, you can find yourself deeply offended, even when you know the accusations are not true.

For example, my friend's husband has told her on more than one occasion that she is "a worthless human being." My friend is far from worthless. She is a very kind, caring and giving person. Also, she is a hard worker who has helped me with numerous projects around my home through the years. My friend knows she is not a worthless human being, yet to have her husband say that to her is heart breaking.

If you have been through a divorce, maybe you discovered that spouses can say some pretty mean things. For some people, if you reflect back you may realize your spouse had developed a habit of putting you down, with negative, demeaning comments. Over time you can easily start to believe the things that are said to you or about you, even when they are not true

I will never forget during my divorce when my husband and I were meeting with the mediator for our children. We were discussing one of the details for our parenting agreement and my soon to be ex-husband made some demeaning, derogatory comment to me. The mediator very sternly let him know that he was out of line and not to speak to me in that manner. She told him he was being disrespectful and his behavior was unacceptable.

For me, that was a real wake up call. I remember thinking to myself, "Wow! Maybe it's not just me. Someone else believes the way he treats me is disrespectful and unacceptable." It gave me a sense of validation for my feelings.

Since that day, my ex-husband continues to make belittling, critical comments to me in emails and/or in person. Although we have a fairly amicable relationship, the negative comments are still made. I am happy to say that after years of being treated this way, I have learned to brush it off more quickly.

If you experienced damaging, hurtful comments in your marriage, during your divorce or in your present relationship with your former spouse, are you aware of the false accusations? You may be so use to hearing them that you accept them as truth. Recognizing the lies and determining the truth may require help. You may want to speak with a good counselor, therapist, coach or trusted friend to help you sort through the comments made by your former spouse.

Here are a few suggestions for combating false accusations:

Recognize the untrue messages as false accusations.

Don't believe them. Don't allow your former spouse to push your buttons. When the words no longer elicit a response from you, they lose their power.

Replace the lie with a statement of truth. For example let's take my friend's situation. The next time her soon to be ex husband tells her she is a worthless human being, she can stop and say to herself; I am a worthwhile and valuable person. My friends and family love me and care about me.

Be patient with yourself. Realize it can take time to reprogram your response.

Don't take it personally. Understand if your former spouse feels guilty, jealous, angry or insecure about themselves they may speak critically of you to make themselves feel better.

Don't retaliate with the same behavior. Do not repay evil for evil.

If you need to vent, talk to a trusted friend. It is nice to have an understanding friend(s) that will listen to you and let you vent or talk through a situation when needed.

Make the decision to no longer believe the lies. It really does not matter what your former spouse thinks of you or says about you. I know hearing the words can be extremely hurtful and painful. Yet, you know the truth. Be the bigger person and do not partake in the verbal mudslinging.

Copyright 2009 Shelley Grieser All Rights Reserved.

Do you dread communicating with your former spouse? Do you cringe every time you have to be in their presence, fearing what snide remark they will throw your way? Do you wonder how you will survive the next number of years having to communicate with your former spouse? If you are interested in reading more about divorce recovery, transitioning from married to single, and rebuilding your life after divorce, then please visit me at: http://www.ahopefilledfuture.com
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1st Wives Club - Post Divorce

Ex Husbands What Are They Good For

Ex-Husbands - What Are They Good For? Absolutely Everything! By Connie Ragen Green

Connie Ragen Green will teach you how to write articles, blog posts, and eBooks to increase your web presence and build an online business.

After a divorce both the man and the woman are usually angry, hurt, and disappointed. They feel that the other person wasted their time and is not good for anything anymore. They just want to be out of each others lives. It doesn’t have to be that way. If you can get past what caused the marriage to fail you may see that the other person is a trusted confidant and good for absolutely everything.

My ex-husband is a wonderful man. We made every attempt to work together as a couple but finally we both realized that we were too far apart on important issues for us to stay together. We had an amicable divorce and went our separate ways. We had no children together but I remained close to his adult son and granddaughter. We would see each other on occasion and we both made sure that bank accounts, income taxes, and other matters were taken care of in a timely manner. I felt bad that I had been unable to make this relationship work but glad that we were still civil to each other.

About three years later I was injured at work. I was incapacitated for several months and needed help with shopping, errands, and my dogs. It was my ex who offered to help me during this time and I truly appreciated it. By then we were not angry any longer and had both moved on emotionally. We were able to enjoy each other as friends. I trusted him with my finances and knew that he would take good care of the dogs. He was purchasing a truck for his business and I was able to offer him some helpful advice. We had moved past the divorce and into a new phase for our relationship.

Many people I know think that it is strange to remain friends with someone you were once married to. Others think it shows great maturity. We are not concerned with what anyone else thinks. We just know that it is good to have a trusted, special friend in your life. Part of it feels good because we both see that we are good people, just not good together as husband and wife. If you have the opportunity to stay friends with your ex I would highly recommend it.

Connie Ragen Green is a speaker and author living in southern California. Visit her at http://www.SmallBusinessUnMarketing.com

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1st Wives Club - Ex-Husbands

Scorned Spouses - Ex-Wives Club

Scorned spouses get revenge in "Ex-Wives Club"
By Barry Garron Reuters


LOS ANGELES (Hollywood Reporter) - Been abused by your ex? Cheated on? Belittled and marginalized? Then pull up a chair because "Ex-Wives Club" is for you, you and you.

Read More Reuters

Scorned Wives

Jenny Sanford

When Gov. Mark Sanford admitted to cheating, his wife stood in the spotlight — but not by him.

There's a slew of philandering politicians, and their wives are in the spotlight. Do they stand by their men, or do they feed them to the media wolves? Bing digs into details.
Nowhere in sight: Jenny Sanford is changing the rules. She refused to stand by cheating husband Gov. Mark Sanford, issuing her own terse statement about the ugly mess. (Don't know what he did? Bing does.) You can watch his confessions or her comment while driving with the kids.

Jenny's fans are applauding. The pundits are weighing in on scorned wives' reactions. The list of embarrassed wives is so long, you might want to start with a search listing the tawdry deeds. Read More

Step Wives

Book overview
Stepwives: (n) (1) ex-wife and current wife to the same man, mother and stepmother to the same children; (2) women destined to battle for the love and control of their families...until now!
Lynne and Louise were stepwives for ten years. While they managed a barely civil relationship, each was seething with anger on the inside. It all boiled over in an ugly scene on the day Lynne saw that Louise was wearing shoes identical to her own favorite pair, and then they knew they had to find a new way of being a family.

With the guidance of marriage and family therapist Marjorie Vego Krausz, Lynne Oxhorn-Ringwood and Louise Oxhorn developed a ten-step program that has helped thousands of women begin to go from sworn enemies to CoMamas. You don't have to follow the program together with your stepwife; even if only one of you follows the plan, your stepwife relationship and the happiness of your family will improve. Learn how to:



Establish a good working relationship with your stepwife

Put the children first

Understand your husband's/ex-husband's role and how he can help

Handle vacations, holidays, and other big occasions

Packed with quizzes, lists, and other helpful tools, Stepwives can show you how to step into her shoes and have a peaceful, cooperative relationship with your stepwife.


Oxhorn-Ringwood and Oxhorn present a refreshing approach to solving the problems of parenting after divorce. Once bitter enemies (Louise married Lynne's ex-husband), the authors, with the assistance of psychologist Krausz, created a ten-step program called CoMamas to help ex-wives and stepmothers build a healthy relationship that puts children first. They have coined the term stepwives to apply to ...

More women who are the ex-wife and current wife to the same man and parent or stepparent to the same children. Based on the authors' own experiences and illustrated with quotes from their diaries, the book offers practical suggestions for developing empathy and learning to lessen tension and support the children caught in a divorce. While their suggestions are commonsensical (e.g., the mother should refrain from calling when the child is with the stepmother), their sense of optimism and cooperative approach are highly unique. Resources and suggested readings are appended. Recommended. Kay Brodie, Chesapeake Coll., Wye Mills, MD

Stepwives By Lynne Oxhorn-Ringwood, Louise Oxhorn, Marjorie Vego Krausz

Scorned

Political Wives Amid Scandal
Carrying on after their husbands have made headlines

Scorned: A User’s Manual
The gospel according to Hillary, Elizabeth, and Jenny.

Newsweek

At some point, after Gov. Mark Sanford launched into his weepy press-conference apology and before I read his loving e-mail ode to his mistress's tan lines, I realized that I was in the presence of a media genius. I'm talking about Jenny Sanford, of course, who deftly transformed her public humiliation into a weapon—and beat her cheating husband about the head with it. While quoting Psalms!

In retrospect, her early comments on the governor's "disappearance" were brilliant. The first lady had known about her husband's affair for months and had given him the boot two weeks earlier. But when reporters were frantically asking, "Where is South Carolina's governor?" the mother of four boys fanned the mystery by telling the Associated Press that she hadn't heard from him in several days. Not even on Father's Day—a line Tina Brown likened to "a sharp, small kick in the groin."

Then, while Sanford's kooky mea culpa was still echoing in the rotunda of the South Carolina Statehouse, she released her own razor-sharp statement. She said she still loves her man and that she remains willing to forgive him and welcome him back. She quoted Psalm 127, that "sons are a gift from the Lord and children a reward from Him."

When I first heard it, I felt a stab of disappointment—yet another political wife scorned, somehow willing to put on a pastel suit and sob quietly in the background as her husband explains all the very good reasons why he had boinked a dear (tan) old friend, had an affair with a man, or spent good money on a tacky hooker. All of those wives have my sympathy: Suzanne Craig, wife of former senator Larry (wide stance) Craig. Dina McGreevey, former wife of former New Jersey governor Jim ("I am a gay American") McGreevey. Silda Wall Spitzer, wife of former New York governor Eliot (Client 9) Spitzer.

But there are a few wronged political wives who get my respect, as well. And I'm beginning to think Jenny Sanford is one of them. On second read, her statement is kind of perfect. It's loving. It's forgiving. It is pious. And she really kicks some butt, if you're willing to read between the lines. She reclaimed the high ground: she "put forth every possible effort to be the best wife during almost 20 years of marriage" (i.e., she did nothing to deserve this). She believes in the sanctity of marriage (he's a cheating bastard). She is ready to forgive completely (because she's a better person than he'll ever be) "as long as he continues to work toward reconciliation with a true spirit of humility and repentance" (there will be hell to pay). She says she will continue to focus on raising her sons to be honorable young men (unlike their dirtbag father). She had kept the separation quiet, she said, to protect those four beautiful boys, and because of the separation, she really hadn't a clue about where her husband was.

It is completely possible that she didn't mean any of those things. But what wife (or former wife, in my case) can't imagine what she'd like to say if she found herself in Jenny Sanford's pumps? And I'm guessing she had an inkling that the luv guv wasn't hiking the Appalachian Trail. By letting him hang himself—and look really dopey while doing it—she somehow managed to come out of a god-awful mess with a little bit of dignity. She may even have become the latest member of an elite club no woman wants to join: Scorned political wives who turn victimhood to their own advantage.

Perhaps nobody has risen from the ashes of a political sex scandal quite the way Elizabeth Edwards did. It was a terrible, undeserved public humiliation when her husband, John Edwards, had an affair with a video producer. But then again, she managed to get a book contract and in that book, Resilience: Reflections on the Burdens and Gifts Facing Life's Adversities, she managed to trash the other woman. She also vented about her husband to Oprah—just as the scandal was beginning to die down. Hillary Clinton, who has been criticized for overlooking her husband's many bimbo eruptions, managed to pull herself together and ride a wave of sympathy into the U.S. Senate.

Even though these women stood by their men in a way I don't fully understand, I feel confident that those men paid a hefty price for their misdeeds. Perhaps it simply reflects that there is a new breed of political wife out there. Elizabeth Edwards and Hillary Clinton were both formidable women long before they were betrayed by famous husbands. Jenny Sanford was a vice president in mergers and acquisitions at investment banking firm Lazard Frères in New York. All of them managed to take lemons, make lemonade, and add a shot of vodka. I can't know what is going on in Jenny Sanford's mind, of course, or if she has been as calculating with the press as I think. But I do know that she's demonstrated a far savvier political instinct for self-preservation and political spin than her husband has.

Article Source: Newsweek

Help Your Ex Husband On His Way.

Help your soon to be exhusband on his way. We are strong women! We can do it!!I just had my 6th surgery in 7 months for my breast reconstruction from my double masectomy. Divorce Decree still processing the final details. Also, 2 weeks ago I received notice for my SSDI approved. With the approval on the first time of appling sure did reduce some of my stress. While reducing stress helps your over all health and is the best for anyone to reduce stress.

Go for a walk today enjoy the summer and nature. Soak up the bit of nature and clear your mind and thoughts. Take care of you!!
Work At Home Moms Choices. WAHM Choices .com

Woman Scorned

Lifetime Woman Scorned: The Betty Broderick Story
Made: 1992
Genre: True Crime Drama
Stars: Meredith Baxter, Stephen Collins, Michelle Johnson
After supporting her lawyer hubby for 16 years, Betty Broderick thought she was entitled to the perfect life - especially now that her spouse was super successful. So, when Dan Broderick asked Betty for a divorce so he could marry a much younger woman, Mrs. Broderick was out for blood! She started off with stalking and vandalism and made her way up to murder! (Be sure to watch the sequel to this true story, "Her Final Fury.") Read and Watch More LifeTime Movies

Remember Ladies we are better than this! Let him go! He is not worth the fight.
1st Wives Club

Find Comfort in the Outdoors

Cut connections to find comfort in the outdoors


Between conference calls, cooking dinner and clipping coupons, women are escaping to the outdoors this summer for an everyday oasis from stress.

In fact, nearly nine in 10 women say they are likely to spend more time outdoors this year compared to last year, with gardening as one of the most popular stress solutions, according to the OFF! Clip-On Mosquito Repellent Survey.

“More and more women tell me that they need to step back from their daily routine and recharge,” says Jennifer Louden, life guide and author of “The Woman’s Comfort Book." "A quiet spot outdoors is the ideal place to get refreshed. You’ll be amazed how energized you feel just spending a little time in nature without any interruptions.”

Louden provides the following tips to create small breaks to find daily peace:

* Start the day right.

Take a few moments for yourself in the morning and think about your goals for the day. Set your alarm clock for five minutes earlier so that you can consider what you want your day to be like instead of letting your mind chatter with a list of tasks.

* Claim an outdoor space.

Find a personal nook, in a park, public garden, beach, sculpture garden or even your own backyard. “To ensure my outdoor breaks aren’t spoiled by mosquitoes, I use OFF! Clip-On Mosquito Repellent, a personal, odorless bug repellent device that clips on to your belt, purse or chair and offers head-to-toe protection from mosquitoes without spraying anything on your skin,” says Louden.

* Let nature relax your mind.

Put petty annoyances aside and focus on the beauty of the natural world, the feeling of the breeze against your skin and the warm sun on your face. Step outside and let nature quiet your mind. Take the time to stop and truly smell the roses.

* Avoid multi-tasking.

Listening to music, walking the dog and taking the kids to the park are things that can prevent you from experiencing real relaxation because you're doing something rather than simply being.

* Focus on your accomplishments.

At the end of the day, instead of dwelling on what you didn’t get done, acknowledge what you accomplished.

Use these easy tips to help you find comfort. For more information about how to protect quiet outdoor moments from mosquitoes, visit www.offprotects.com.

Courtesy of ARA Content



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Yes You Can’ Afford Plastic Surgery

‘Yes You Can’ Afford Plastic Surgery … Despite the Ugly Economy

With unemployment at an all-time high, it is becoming a necessity for Americans to put their best face forward.  More of us are turning to less costly, non-invasive cosmetic “touch ups” to look competent and feel confident, whether in the workplace, or pounding the pavement.



Recession-driven job losses have put more baby boomers and workers in their 50s back into the job market, and they are competing with people in their 20s and 30s.  Many are looking at improving their appearance as an investment they need to make.  Fortunately, a number of safe, effective and non-invasive anti-aging treatments, offered by trained and board-certified facial plastic surgeons, are now available at competitive costs.



“Patients in today's economy are looking for value: good results but priced fairly,” says Dr. Donn R. Chatham, president of the American Academy of Facial Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery (AAFPRS).  “It is also important to trust your face to a facial specialist, one who focuses on the health and appearance of the face."



Six Popular Treatments for Cost-conscious Consumers



1. Botox injections – In use for medical purposes for more than five decades, the FDA approved Botox in 2002 for the temporary improvement of glabellar lines, the vertical lines between eyebrows.  Since its approval, millions have been treated with Botox, and to date, it is still the most requested non-invasive procedure according to the annual survey of the AAFPRS.



2. Cosmetic fillers – Wrinkles not only make you look older, but they can cause others to misread your emotions, especially if the wrinkles are in areas of the face normally associated with frowning or other negative expressions.  Cosmetic fillers like collagen, hyaluronic acid, Restylane, Juvederm, Radiesse, Sculptra, Evolence and others add volume to the skin to soften or eliminate the appearance of wrinkles and provide a more youthful, rejuvenated appearance.



3. Laser treatments – Non-invasive laser procedures can help reduce wrinkles around the eyes and lips, even the surface of the face, and remove blemishes like birthmarks, skin growths, acne, spider veins, warts and even some tattoos.



4. Skin resurfacing/rejuvenation – Chemical peeling and dermabrasion both remove aged, damaged skin cells to create a smoother, younger-looking surface.



5. Minimally invasive surgery – Facial plastic surgeons have developed methods for minimizing the invasiveness of some of the most popular facial surgeries, including face lifts, blepharoplasty (eyelid surgery) and rhinoplasty, reducing pain and recovery times for many patients.



6. Lip augmentation – Several procedures are available to give lips a fuller, plumper, and more youthful look while reducing the appearance of fine lines around the lips.



Americans undergo more than 2 million facial plastic surgery procedures each year.  If you, or a loved one, is considering enhancing your competitive edge in the workplace by improving your appearance, it’s important to find a compassionate, knowledgeable facial plastic surgeon you trust.  The American Academy of Facial Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery offers helpful resources, including information about different types of surgery, on its Web site, www.facemd.org.  With more than 2,700 members whose practices concentrate on the face, head and neck, the AAFPRS can help you find the right, qualified facial plastic surgeon for your needs.



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Looking Better Helps Cancer Patients

Looking better helps cancer patients feel better

No Matter what type of cancer you have. When you look better you feel better. Having your nails done or new cloths and a massage can make all the difference. Read More Below:




"I never cried when I was told I had breast cancer or had to tell my mother and husband," says Lumb. "I only cried when I started to lose my hair. Cancer has a way of robbing you of your femininity."



Enhancing a woman's self-confidence,by giving her the support and tools she needs to manage her changing appearance during cancer treatment provides renewed hope.  It gives her the strength she needs to face her treatment and recovery with greater confidence. When women look better, they feel better.



A survey by Look Good…Feel Better -- a national public service program that helps women cope with the appearance-related changes of cancer treatment -- and Harris Interactive found that 86 percent of women in treatment credit looking better with feeling better.



"Now we want women to inspire others by sharing their stories," says Louanne Roark, executive director of Look Good…Feel Better. "We know our workshops have had a tremendous impact on women around the country, and we want to share those encouraging stories with other women.”  



The organization, which has helped 650,000 women since it began 20 years ago, is launching a national search to find five women who have been touched by cancer and want to share their stories as a way to help others. These women will be honored as the Women of Hope is Beautiful.



Women affected by cancer can visit www.lookgoodfeelbetter.org to submit their stories of hope, strength and determination.  The organization is encouraging entries -- such as essays, poems, pictures, or videos -- that share a personal story of coping with cancer and the impact of the Look Good…Feel Better program.  The five women selected will receive a trip to New York and a complimentary makeover.  They will also be honored at the organization's annual black-tie gala.



As Lumb explains, "I discovered that I can look as good as I did before I got sick, maybe even better."  To read more about her experience or share your own inspiring story, visit www.lookgoodfeelbetter.org.  



Look Good…Feel Better is a collaboration between the Personal Care Products Council Foundation, the American Cancer Society and the National Cosmetology Association., and is dedicated to improving the lives of women, men and teens undergoing cancer treatment by offering advice on how to cope with the appearance-related side effects of chemotherapy, radiation and other forms of treatment.  



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Men vs Women

Men vs. women -- understanding the bathroom gender divide



- Ever wonder what your significant other is doing behind the shower curtain? Curious as to why women consistently take longer showers than men? Whether the toilet seat is left up or down or the toothpaste cap is left on or off -- the differences between men and women’s bathroom habits are undeniable.  



A recent “Behind the Shower Curtain” study by Water Pik Inc. took a peek at how men and women spend their time in the bathroom, what they value most about their behind-the-curtain experience and the nuances between each gender’s bathroom behaviors. Findings reveal that while a gender divide may exist -- knowledge can be powerful when it comes to conquering bathroom discrepancies between men and women.



The survey’s steamiest findings include:



* If you thought women were notorious for using all the hot water -- think again. On average, men shower only two minutes less than women (14 minutes for women vs. 12 minutes for men).



* While women use shower time to contemplate chores, problems and weight, men spend their shower time thinking about work, sex and day dreams.



* Although it takes two to tango -- more men (66 percent) than women (55 percent) admit to showering with another adult for intimacy.



* Despite a growing number of female do-it-yourselfers, men are more than twice as likely as women to say they have personally changed a showerhead.



* While a relaxing soak in the tub was once in high demand -- only one in 10 women and one in 20 men take baths more often than showers.



Sharing a bathroom with an opposite-gendered counterpart can frequently trigger pet-peeve overload. The survey found that toothpaste gobs in the sink ranks in the top two on the list of pet peeves for women, while hair in the drain ranks similarly high on the list of pet peeves for men.



While men and women spend plenty of time irritated with each other’s bathroom habits -- it seems they can agree on one thing -- low water pressure is the No. 1 bathroom pet peeve amongst both groups. Surprisingly, an overwhelming majority of both men and women also agree that they would rather pay bills than clean the shower.



Though it appears the bathroom gender divide is unavoidable, pet-peeve relief and shower bliss is within reach. Consider the following shower tips for a better behind-the-shower-curtain experience:



* For the men -- Be sensitive to the slightly extended timing of your female counterpart’s showers -- considering she shaves an average of 4.9 minutes per shower and spends more time contemplating her to-do list.



* For the women -- Appreciate your male’s willingness to change the showerhead -- but also keep in mind that changing a showerhead does not require a plumber and takes just minutes of your time.



* Get the water pressure you deserve -- While it might not be so surprising that water pressure is the No. 1 concern in the shower, take time to explore the advanced water technology available today. For instance, the Waterpik brand showerhead line has advanced OptiFLOW technology which delivers up to 30 percent more water force -- even in its low-flow options.



* Upgrade your bathroom for less -- Take small steps with big impact -- such as replacing a showerhead. With a vast array of showerheads, spanning traditional to contemporary design -- changing your showerhead can instantly transform the look and feel of your bathroom, without breaking the bank.



* Create a spa experience in the shower -- While 50 percent of people think it’s a hassle to change modes while showering, it’s easy to elevate your shower experience. Try replacing your showerhead with the Waterpik EasySelect showerhead. It's the first handheld showerhead that features a fingertip five-mode selector in the handle.



For more information visit www.Waterpik.com.



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Exs and addictions

Unreal!!! Yesterday I had the next step of my masectomy reconstruction. My daughter and grandkids where with me. My ex had the nerve to call my daughter and ask for money when yesterday was his payday. This is a man that makes over 55K per year and stil cannot manage his money. That is sure a red flag that his addictions are out of control and he has put them before anyone other then his own needs. He has even taken the step to ask me to take a reduced amount on spouse support. I was just approved this week for SSDI and have a very limted income of less than half of his.

This really insures me I made the correct decesion to divorce him. Sad thing my daughter is now hs whipping post. She is learning though and why I did what I did by getting rid of him.

All the best to my readers.

Exs and Fathers Day

As today I sit on my sofa alone on the holiday in honor of the father of my children. I wonder how his day is going with our daughter's and grandchildren visit. This is the 2nd Fathers Day since our split. When just the week before he had called me to give me grief and complaints about being at the cabin with the kids and grandchildren the week before. I had gone so far as to include him if he cared to join as well which he declined.

This is another example of why I choose to divorce him. He wants to have control over my time where I go,shop, spend my time etc. it always takes 2 people to argue and heard the voice in my head say not to comment to him or reply to his mean words and drunkenness on the telephone. In responding to these threats I was in control of my life and reactions and choose not to partake in this manner of discussion and allowing him to treat me like a door mat. When I did not react in the manner he wanted me to he soon ended the conversation.

I did send a general card to him on this holiday. For after 30 plus years there is a past and I believe to empower me and lead by example in front of my daughters and families and teach the grandchildren that there is general respect we should treat everyone in the world foreign or domestic. By this manner I lifted myself up to the higher place in my own self esteem.

This feeling I have right now is empathy not resentment. I have moved and crossed over and not allowed him to have any control over me. I broke the cycle which means I cannot change him into the person I wanted hime to be but I have change myself into the person I want to be and stand for.

This is the best gift I can give to myself on this day.

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Alone

To be alone is to be different, to be different is to be alone.

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Forgivness

Forgiveness is one of the many horrible side effects of loving someone.

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Insanity is Hereditary

"Insanity is hereditary. You can get it from your children." Sam Levenson

Boys and Men

It is easier to build a boy than to mend a man."

Home

Home---"The place in which you are treated the best and grumble the most.

Signs of an Abusive Relationship

Every relationship has its ups and downs, and problems. However, there comes a time when harmless bickering (which at times can be a sign of a healthy relationship) crosses a line and becomes abuse. One of the most confusing factors for a man or woman to determine, is whether or not they are in an abusive situation. This is especially difficult because it is common in abusive relationships for the abuser to gain power and control over his or her victim and make them believe that their relationship is normal. Combine this with the fact that many abusers blame their victims and are masters at making them believe that they are the ones at fault.

Abusive relationships are more than just fights that resemble scenes of domestic violence and battery depicted on Hollywood movie screens. If you are in a relationship that robs your sense of self-esteem due to constantly being put down or being spoke to in a continually verbally degrading manner, then you are being emotionally and verbally abused. It is important to realize that verbal and emotional abuse is just as damaging as physical abuse, and often it might be harder to recover from. Since all cases of abuse damage the emotions, it is easier for a body to heal than it is to heal a wounded spirit, broken heart, and bruised self-esteem.

Understanding the nature of domestic abuse and domestic violence are the first steps in determining whether or not you are in an abusive relationship. Domestic abuse involves one partner using tactics such as guilt, fear, shame, or intimidation to try and gain power or control over the other person. Often the abuser attempts to isolate the partner from friends and family members as this helps them to gain more control. If they can isolate the person and cause them to become completely dependent upon their abuser, they can continue to abuse without fear that someone will discover what they are doing.

The difference between domestic abuse and domestic violence, is violence or physical assault. Once the fear, threats, and intimidation take on a physical nature it is domestic violence. Though society often pictures women as being the sole victim of domestic abuse or domestic violence, it is important to realize that abusive relationships have no gender or sexual preference. Same sex relationships as well as men and women can all be the victims of domestic abuse or domestic violence.

The main purpose of domestic abuse and domestic violence is to gain power and control over their victims. Though this is not an all inclusive list, the following are some signs that you might be in an abusive relationship. Ask yourself if your partner often humiliates, criticizes, or yells at you. Also, if you feel that he or she views you as a sex object or as his or her property and not your own person, than you are in an abusive relationship. These behaviors can translate into victims who feel afraid to discuss certain topics with their partner, or feel that they can never do anything right. If you are afraid of your partner or believe that you are in an abusive relationship, then you must get help. Contact your local community crisis center and explain your situation. They will be able to point you in the right direction and help you get the help you need.

Author: Marcia Chumbley
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1st Wives Club

Welcome to the 1st Wives Club.



This blog was started for other divorce women like myself who have found themsleves suddenly single, middle age or a new single mom. We all have fallen into the 1st wives club. Let us share , listen and give support to each other.

Dating and the Single Parent

Dating can be difficult enough, without figuring children into the equation. For many single parents, however, dating is extra tough because they must protect their children’s interests and emotional well being. Due to the emotional nature of children, single parents often find it extremely difficult to date.

One of the most important things that parents must take into consideration is balancing their time with their children’s needs. For single parents whose children spend weekends with the other parent, dating is a bit easier. The single parent can schedule dates for weekends, typically every other weekend when the child is visiting the other parent. This avoids much of the stress that children can experience when they realize that their parent is dating. It is also a good way to screen potential relationships without worrying that your children might become emotionally involved. For many single parents, they can date on these weekends without their children being aware that they are going out.

For other parents, however, the other parent isn’t in the picture and children are very close to the care giving parent. These parents must be more careful regarding dating and keeping a fine line drawn between their dating life and their children.

The most difficult thing to determine is when your children will be ready to meet your new partner. You don’t want to make the mistake of having your children meet your new partner, and then become emotionally attached to him or her, only to have the relationship come to a sudden end. A very important fact to remember is that your child has already experienced some degree of loss due to one parent being absent. This must be considered and recognized, especially before introducing your children to a number of different partners who will not be a permanent fixture in your child’s life.

Knowing when to introduce your children to your partner can be difficult to determine. It’s best to err on the side of caution and wait until you are certain that you and your partner will be involved in a long term relationship. Once you are sure that you are ready for your children to meet your partner, you’ll need to determine the best way to handle the introduction.

Preparing your children to meet your new partner is only half the battle. You’ll also need to make sure that your partner is prepared for meeting your children. Acknowledging the fact that your children and your partner might not hit it off right away can save you some aggravation and frustration as well. Speak to your partner about the possibility that there might be issues, and determine a plan or strategy of how you two will handle any confrontations or situations that may arise.

Ensuring that your partner is fully aware that you have children and is open to the role that places him or her in, will make certain that you are a united front. Many children resist the idea of a new partner in their parent’s life. However, with time and patience, together you and your partner can create an environment that your child will be open to. The important thing is not to rush your child, and not to have your partner overstep his or her bounds. Your children need time to adjust to a new partner, and time and patience is key to making that adjustment work.

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Marcia Chumbley is a work at home mom and grandmother in Minnesota. She is the owner of a Christian Work From Home Moms and Grandparents web site at http://www.faithfulgrannies.com . Bringing generations of Christian Work From Home Moms, Grandmothers, Parents, Boomers and Families together while providing resources, inspiration and affordable advertising while balancing the work at home experience. Also see: Work At Home Divas Online Http://www.workathomedivasonline.com

Divorce Quotes - Heart By Pass Surgery

“Divorce is the psychological equivalent of a triple coronary by-pass. After such a monumental assault on the heart, it takes years to amend all the habits and attitudes that led up to it.” - Mary Kay Blakely

Divorce Quotes Ruth Graham

They asked her (Ruth Graham) did she ever think about divorce and she said, 'No, I've never thought of divorce in all these 35 years of marriage, but,' she said, 'I did think of murder a few times” - Billy Graham

Divorce Quotes and Laughs

Marriage is about love; divorce is about money”

Divorce Quotes

Ah, yes, divorce ... from the Latin word meaning to rip out a man's genitals through his wallet.” Robin Williams

Divorce Quotes

“There are two sides to every divorce: Yours and shithead's”

Divorce Quotes - Keep The House

“I'm an excellent housekeeper. Every time I get a divorce, I keep the house.” - Zas Zas Gabor

Divorce Quotes - The Right Person

They keep saying the right person will come along, I think mine got hit by a truck.”

Speaking to a Ex the First Time

Monday, I was at my daughters home who is 14 weeks pregnant with her 3rd child. She had been sick, voimting, headaches, fevers etc everything we thought of with the swine flu. At the same time she was passing a large amount of blood and clots. Her OB doctor had her admitted right from the office to the hospital. I mentioned to my daughter that she needed to call her dad and let him know. She was crying so hard she just dialed his number and handed the phone to me.

It takes you back a bit when you hear your ex's voice in a long time. I simpl;y said to him George this Marcia and Melissa is in the hospital and went over the list of problems. He paused and replied "Sweatheart can we stop all this its getting the best of me and I cant take it any longer" WOW...I was thinking how do I reply to this our attorneys are working out property and debts. I just replied and said I am not sure what you mean. And went right back our daughter who was in the hospital and asked him do you understand. Nothing more was said.

As I hung up it was puzzling what did he mean by "sweetheart" yes it is the name he called me. But we had been divorced for 1.5 years now and we had never spoke to each other. I passed it off as maybe he wanted to give in. But I think he was truely wanting to stop having to pay spouse support. We may never know.

Yes, the 1st conversation can make you nervious just remain calm never agree with any thing till you have time to think things through. And yes when he says the kind word sweetheart you do remember a few of the good years after all there was 32 of them for us. The main thing you need to also remember why he is your Ex for a reason.as well.

Our daughter got the care she needed and is out from the hospital blessings to that.

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Divorce Quotes - True Love

True Love

True love doesn't have a happy ending, because true love never ends. Letting go is one way of saying I love you.”

Quotes For The Day, Love a Bad Man

“A woman has got to love a bad man once or twice in her life, to be thankful for a good one”

Love a Bad Man, Quotes For The Day

Accountability

How has accountability helped you in your walk with Jesus? What has it meant for you to be accountable to an individual or to a group of other be… Think about it.

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Indian Proverbs

If you live in the river you should make friends with the crocodile.

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Latin Proverbs

By learning you will teach, by teaching you will learn.

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Chinese Proverbs

Man is the head of the family, woman the neck that turns the head.

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Work at Home Mom of the Year.

Great honor. I was chossen Mom of the 1st quarter of 2009 by Stay At Home Moms Online. You may read more at WAHM and SAHM Online.
http://stayathomemomsonline.com/momofmonth.html

How To Escape a Bad Marriage

If you're a woman living in constant fear of an abusive mate, Dr. Phil dedicates this show to you. He documents the tumultuous journey of a mother of four who flees to a shelter to escape what she says is a violent marriage. Check out this show to learn more http://drphil.com/shows/show/1264/

I had my 4th surgery on April 13, 2009 since December 08 when we started the double masectomy and reconstruction. Feeling great a little tired. Stayed at my daughters in the cities following surgery for 10 days in case of any complications. Monday 4-20-09 had follow up and 1 of the drains removed. Next Monday I go back and have the other darin removed.

When the say your insicion is from hip bone to hip bone they are correct. Good thing I heal very well and with little scaring. Dr Schaefer and his staff are the best.

Ancient Proverbs

Love is like a war:Easy to begin Hard to end!

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Exercise Makes a Difference for Those Living with Chronic Illness

Exercise Makes a Difference for Those Living with Chronic Illness



After experiencing symptoms including numbness in her fingers, weakness on the right side of her body and extreme fatigue, Grace Ragland was diagnosed with relapsing-remitting multiple sclerosis (RRMS), the most common form of MS. MS is a chronic disease that attacks the central nervous system, which includes the spinal cord, brain and nerves. Despite her diagnosis, Ragland was determined to not let MS stand in her way of leading an active and fulfilling life.


With the encouragement of family and friends, Ragland decided to take up mountain biking in an effort to cope with her disease and now races competitively; leaving her worries about MS behind her. “I will not let MS get in the way of accomplishing my goals,” she says.


While most people are not competitive mountain bike racers like Ragland, it is recommended that people with chronic illnesses like MS engage in moderate physical activity and adopt a healthy lifestyle to help manage their disease. The National Center for Chronic Disease Prevention and Health Promotion says that regular physical activity can help people with chronic, disabling conditions improve their stamina and muscle strength and can improve psychological well-being and quality of life. If you are living with a chronic illness, here are some tips from the National Multiple Sclerosis Society (NMSS) to help construct a helpful exercise routine:
* Consult a physician. He/she will be able to make recommendations about exercise frequency, duration and type of exercise most beneficial for you.

* Modify exercises, especially if symptoms cause a difference in strength or ability between one side of the body and the other.

* If a particular activity makes you feel worse, you may have overdone it. Start slowly and exercise a little longer at each session.

* Schedule physical activity for the time of the day when energy is highest. Alternate more demanding exercise with activity requiring less.


Today, Ragland is successfully living with MS and is now the newest member of Team Copaxone, a group of individuals who are pursuing their dreams despite MS. The team celebrates the accomplishments of people like Ragland who refuse to let their condition stand in their way. She passionately maintains a positive outlook on life. “I have MS,” Ragland says. “MS doesn’t have me.”


For more information about Team Copaxone or MS treatment options, visit SharedSolutions.com.


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Simple Ways to Scatter Joy This Mother’s Day

- It really is the thought that counts, especially when finding the perfect way to express your sincere appreciation for all that Mom does to give support, comfort, and joy year round. This Mother’s Day, as people are looking for simple ways to show Mom how much they care, it means that every gift and card has an even bigger job to do.



Kathy Davis, a mother, author and artist for American Greetings, offers these simple ways to give the gift of joy to Mom this Mother’s Day to show her how much she is loved and respected.



Show Her Your Gratitude



Think about all of the things your mom has done for you over the years to show her love and support. Write out what you remember about these instances and how important they are to you in a heartfelt note. It only takes a few minutes, but creates a lasting keepsake that she will treasure and reread for years to come.



Shower her with the same attention she gives you by spending some time talking together. Take this opportunity to find out fun facts, stories, and details of her life that you might have otherwise not known.



It’s All About Appreciation



Mom has spent countless hours and sleepless nights caring for you, worrying about you and helping you to succeed, so Mother’s Day is a great day to pamper her with all of the things she doesn’t often get to indulge in -- some quiet time to read, a bubble bath, or just the free time to take a walk.



Try tackling some of the thankless tasks that Mom performs every day -- whether it is household chores, meal preparation, or running errands. Putting yourself in her shoes is a great way to let her know how much you appreciate what she does for you every single day.



All She Needs is Love



Spending quality time together, whether it’s an outing, a meal together, or just an afternoon spent going through old photo albums, is oftentimes the most precious gift of all.



Use Mother’s Day as a catalyst to stay in better touch with Mom year-round. Commit to showing her the same appreciation, gratitude and love she has shown you by regularly calling, sending her notes and always listening to her.



“My ‘Scatter Joy’ philosophy is all about finding your own joy and inspiration and then sharing it with those around you. They, in turn, may be inspired to do the same, creating a positive ripple effect,” says Davis. “Mother’s Day is the perfect opportunity to shower love and affection on your own mom, as well as all of the other wonderful women and mothers in your life, such as your sisters, daughters, aunts and friends.”



Mother’s Day cards by Kathy Davis can be found at participating drug chains, grocery stores and super centers nationwide, as well as in American Greetings and Carlton Cards retail stores. Kathy Davis giftware and her new book, “Scatter Joy: Living, Giving and Creating A Life You Love,” are available at all American Greetings and Carlton Card stores nationwide. Visit www.corporate.americangreetings.com for store locations.



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LOVE

Love is doing small things with great love."-Mother Teresa (1910-1997)

Hang On

When you get to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on. Franklin D. Roosevelt Now you are flying a kite.

Spring Re-Birth

I think that no matter how old or infirm I may become, I will always plant a large garden in the spring. Who can resist the feelings of hope and joy that one gets from participating in nature's rebirth? ~Edward Giobbi

Silence

"God is the friend of silence. See how nature-trees, flowers, grass-grows in silence;see the stars, the moon and the sun, how they move in silence...We need silence to be able to touch souls."-Mother Teresa (1910-1997)

How precious is a promise kept.

Housekeeping

I'm an excellent housekeeper. Every time I get a divorce, I keep the house.-- Zsa Zsa Gabor

Caution Under Construction

Caution Under Construction- I Am A Survior !!

Today I had to laugh at myself. I turned 50 this week, still working out the details and property of the divorce along with all the reconstruction surgery due to breast cancer. I put on my hard hat and wore my T-shirt that said "Caution Underconstruction." A good way to sum up this past year. "New Life, New Beginings New Body" and I am loving all of it.

Faith

"When one door of happiness closes, another opens;but often we look so long at the closed door that we donot see the one which has been opened for us."-Helen Keller (1880-1968)

Promises

Presents aren't promises and kisses aren't contracts. Something everyone should learn

Promises

Promises in the name of love have to be kept or you shall lose the one you love forever.

Quotes For The Day,

Never, never, never give up. Winston Churchill

The Sensitive Plant

And Spring arose on the garden fair,Like the Spirit of Love felt everywhere;And each flower and herb on Earth's dark breastrose from the dreams of its wintry rest.~Percy Bysshe Shelley, "The Sensitive Plant"